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Comfortable anywhere.On $41 a day.

We take our three boys to the uncomfortable places on purpose: chicken buses, volcano summits, border crossings gone wrong. So they grow up at home anywhere in the world. Here's exactly how we do it on a real family budget.

40+ countries · 3 boys · 57 days, 3 countries, $12,913.43 · every dollar tracked

Why unpaved

The bubble is real. Leave it.

At 19 I spent two years in Paraguay on a mission for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints: ants in the bed, a hole in the ground for a toilet, and neighbors with almost nothing who gave us everything. It taught me you don't need much to be happy. I want my boys to learn that much sooner than I did.

We're not chasing hardship. We're building a skill: be uncomfortable on purpose, in small doses, so you're comfortable anywhere. The budget just makes it possible, and it makes the kids part of the trip instead of cargo.

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Family adventure in Vietnam

Vietnam, 2023

What we believe

  1. 1

    Discomfort is practice, not punishment.

    A 3-hour bus today makes the 20-hour travel day easier.

  2. 2

    A budget is a teacher.

    Constraints turn kids into participants.

  3. 3

    Real beats staged.

    We eat where locals eat and sleep where we can afford to.

  4. 4

    Comfortable is the goal.

    Kids who feel at home anywhere.

Proof, not promises

Central America in 57 days

We tracked every dollar for El Salvador, Guatemala and Honduras with a family of five.

$12,913.43

total, all-in

~$227 a day

for the whole family

~$45 per person

per day, or ~$41 without our one $1,200 splurge day

  • • Overnight on Acatenango while Fuego erupted
  • • PADI certifications on Utila
  • • Four blackfin tuna on the last day
  • • We went $1,580 over our base budget (plus one $1,200 splurge day), mostly on transport, and we show you exactly why

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Central America 57-Day Budget Playbook

The route, the real budget vs. actual by category, cost per stop, and what we'd do differently, so you can plan your own trip and skip our expensive mistakes.

  • • Day-by-day route with costs
  • • Budget vs. actual table
  • • What we'd change
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